Well, here we are again at a New Year. I know that many people feel it is a time for new beginnings, making resolutions and decisions on how they might like their life to move forward in the year that is to come. Many of us have these good intentions, and why not? It’s as good a time as any to decide to make a change.
So, the question is – What do you want to be doing differently in 2009?
Of course, there are the usual things that many of us want for a new year – lose weight, get fitter, stop smoking – all very admirable things to do. Just think, if you decide now is the time to do something about those extra pounds you may have been carrying around for a while, by the Summer, we might be seeing a lot less of you! And think of the health benefits to quitting the cancer sticks, not to mention the heavier pockets you might have through not having to pay the Chancellor all the excise duty on a packet. These may be the obvious choices of New Year’s Resolutions.
But what other areas of your life might you like to see a difference in? It might be finding ways to reconnect with family or friends; going out into the big wide world and trying new things that you haven’t even contemplated before; or perhaps even a major change like finding a new career path. Only you can answer the question in a way that’s right for you.
Many of us make resolutions or promises to ourselves to do things differently at this time of year, but how many of us see it through? How many will stumble before getting to our goal? I can’t answer that question with any degree of accuracy, but I do know that research has shown that those of us that set ourselves goals, and then share them with others close to us (friends, family and work colleagues) are significantly more likely to succeed than those that keep their goals to themselves. Others may simply find the whole process more of a challenge because of their past somehow getting in the way and stopping them from succeeding in their future. The unconscious mind is a powerful thing, and if it feels that something you are trying to do is not right for you, it will make every attempt to stop you from doing it, no matter how much your logical mind seems to want it to happen. Your unconscious is trying to protect you; no matter how misguided it is in the way it is doing it. It really does mean well, bless it!
So, my advice to those setting themselves New Year’s Resolutions over the next few days would be to tell as many people about your goal as you are comfortable with. Their encouragement along the way may be exactly what you need to see you to the successful outcome of your goal. And if at some point you find you need some extra help because your unconscious is getting in the way, give me a call. Using cognitive hypnotherapy and NLP (neuro linguistic programming) I help people to find a way with the unconscious so that both it, and the conscious mind can be working towards the same goal. Just think how powerful your mind could be, if both the conscious and the unconscious mind are working together. Together, we can find the life you want.
HAPPY NEW YEAR AND BEST WISHES FOR 2009
Anita Mitchell Cognitive Hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner
DipCHyp, HPD, MPNLP MNCH(reg)
Tel: 01753 544014 Mob: 07813 126048 www.anitamitchell.co.uk